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Rani asks: My best friend got me and her childhood friend to start talking, but he lives 6 hours away from me and I’ve never met him. He told her initially he’s not looking for a girlfriend, which was cool because I figured we could be friends. We talked for hours on the phone. For 4 months we were close. Then he started saying things like, I can’t wait to see you, you’re so interesting, you’re my best friend. That got me really excited, and I thought maybe he meant as more than just friends.

I’d planned to meet him at a wedding near his place as a friend of mine had invited me. I told him about it, but then on the advice of my friends started playing games and told him I wanted to meet him, and then told him I didn’t… I was all over the map. And then I read He’s Just Not That Into You, which got me really depressed. This girl in the book said, “I got empowered and I said I don’t need to talk to you anymore,” so that night I texted him confessing that I was into him and that it sucks when the guy your into doesn’t like you back. For 2-3 weeks after that he didn’t call.

I contacted him to see what was up because I got impatient, and he told me he was sorry for everything but just wanted to be friends. So we talked for two hours, and he said he might be coming with my brother to visit soon but, “Don’t go all nuts on me if I don’t”. I told him I’m cool – and I want to SHOW him that I’m cool. I regret playing games with this guy and really want to see him more than anything in the world. Do you think I can get him back, or is he always going to think of me as the crazy girl?

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… or so says a study shared in the Journal of Marriage and Family, as reported by Science News. Almost all of the participants in the study (96%!) were found to have “strong distrust” of the opposite sex, yet when asked about their current relationship, they stated it was of a “trusting” nature. As well, the distrust of said men didn’t stop these low income women from entering into romantic, long term relationships.

I have to say that reading this study made me pause, as did the friends I shared it with. The actual information didn’t surprise any of us. Rather, the percentage of women is what was frightening. Do virtually all lower income women find men untrustworthy? And if so, why are they entering into relationships with essentially the same gender they have obvious unresolved issues with?

The study went on to say that because of this mismatched trust (feeling distrustful of men in general but stating that their current relationship was trustworthy) put the women who were a part of the study at further risk for unhealthy relationships, basically doing whatever they had to to give their partner the benefit of the doubt.

What do you think about the findings of this study? What would you suggest to low income moms, or the men who date them, in response to this study?

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